Final

Class/ Self Evaluation

A) What I liked about this class its that is was peaceful and I could get all my work done in good timing and that the TA's assisted you if you needed help and it teached me more stuff then I was expected to learn. I learned alot of fascinating stuff like how to create a website using html.
B) Suggestions about improving this class is nothing because this class is great I really liked it alot and I could only improve myself for trying harder and for over acvhieving more.
3) I didnt really do my best because i could have done way more stuff then I did I just became a little lazy but i still tried and when I take this class again next semester I am going to try to over achieve so that I can feel better about myself.
4) Yes im commited to be a CTR person because if you really focuse on being the best person that you can and trying your hardest when you choose the right decisions it would lead you to a happier and a better life then you would normally expected.

How to win friends

Six Ways to Make People Like you. If you want people to like you........

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested on other people

"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." 

"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

In my opinion i wouldnt know if this would be true about winning friends but i belive that it might have a chance to influence friends or might give you an upper chance to become good friends. These quotes i wrote on top might be true I don't know about that but like I believe that no matter what you will have friends. You wont need too much friends but if you want tho this book will be for you.

Rule 2: Smile
1)" Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)" You don't feel like smiling? Thyen force yourself to smile."
3)"It createshappiness in the home, fostors good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends." 

Alot of reason can make you smile dont give up or dont stop having hop if you really want something try your best and smile while your trying because if gives you a better sense of great attitude that you have more confidence on yourself and you will have a great amount of chance to get that thing or someone youve always dreamed of having or being 

 Rule 3: Remember Names
1)"A mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you dont remember names, you ar headed for trouble."
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How to Remember Names:
To remember a persons name you should, remember the person's face. Try to find an unique feature, whether ears, hairline, forehead, eyebrows, eyes, nose, mouth, chin, complexion, etc.

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk                about themselves.

1. Stay Focused, Eye contact
2. Really listen
3. Allow for periods of silence, Wait until the other person finishes speaking
4. Repeat peoples words or paraphrase it back to them
5. Understand the emotions behind the word

"If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."


Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and                    do it sincerely.
"To desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

Reflection:
My thought of the "Six Ways to Make People Like You" is that the six ways are really great, alot of people like friendships when they are heard and when your there for them throught thick and thin and that you hear them out instead of complaining about what they did wron but think of what they did right and help them improve what they did wrong. Many people give bad examples of their type of friendship; they dont hear them out, they interupt, choose other peoples sides instead of yours, and they are more interesting into them selves and dont care about what happens to you until you gain fame or money.

Glenn Cunningham

Glenn Cunningham

Glenn Cunningham had a rought childhood, he suffered but never gave up he dreamed big and he achieved all the things he wanted to do, nothing stopped him even though sometimes when he was about to give up he still though hard about it and he told himself "i'll walk, i'll walk." Even though he didnt achieve his goal for making the mile in 4 minutes he still tried harder and harder. 

The Six Attitudes of High Achievers

"The Six Attitudes of High Achievers"

1) Make no small plans

"Make no little plans; they have no magic to stir men`s blood and probably themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work, remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will never die, but long after we are gone will be a living thing, asserting itself with ever- growing insistency. Remember that our sons and grandsons are going to do things that would stagger us. Let your watchword be order and your beacon beauty." 
Daniel Burnham

2) Do what they fear 
Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay. Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously. Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.
Thich Nhat Hanh

3) Are willing to prepare
I'm saying to be a hero is means you step across the line and are willing to make a sacrifice, so heroes always are making a sacrifice. Heroes always take a risk. Heroes always deviant. Heroes always doing something that most people don't and we want to change - I want to democratise heroism to say any of us can be a hero.
Philip Zimbardo

4) Are willing to risk failure
Success is about dedication. You may not be where you want to be or do what you want to do when you're on the journey. But you've got to be willing to have vision and foresight that leads you to an incredible end.
Usher

5) Are teachable
There are humans or animals that can not be ttrianed or tought how to behave or work. Some humans or animals are taught at an early age how to do stuff and how to behave so that in the future they could develope more and become better like a CTR person.


6) Have Heart
Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it.
Steve Jobs

Reflection:

High achievers make no small thought and thes 6 Attitudes of High Achievers is great so guide you through your future to become a better person overall and become genuine.These 6 steps helped me in my life alot and showed me another point of view.each of the 6 Attitudes will lead you to new and better life obstacles and show you that you can surpass what you thought you couldn't do.

9 Ways to be happy and make something 

of your life

Gordon B. Hinckley

• Be grateful

Being grateful means having gratitude for what you have because some people will always have less then others and they would love to have that thing.

"Most of us never stop to consider our blessings; rather, we spend the day only thinking about our problems. But since you have to be alive to have problems, be grateful for the opportunity to have them."

Bernie Siegel

• Be smart

Being smart means that you make great decisions in your life and that you make your life easier and you live the life of choosing the right.

“Take responsibility for your own body, mind, and spirit, for your own physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.”

Mr.Haymore

• Be Involved in Good Works

"Inspiration is one thing and you can't control it, but hard work is what keeps the ship moving. Good luck means, work hard. Keep up the good work."

Kevin Eubanks

• Be clean

"Don't call the world dirty because you forgot to clean your glasses."

Aaron Hill

• Be True

"Be true to the game, because the game will be true to you. If you try to shortcut the game, then the game will shortcut you. If you put forth the effort, good things will be bestowed upon you. That's truly about the game, and in some ways that's about life too."

Michael Jordan

• Be Positive

The Quote of johnny Depp means that if you arent doing what you love your not going to be to happy. If you follow what makes people happpy instead of yourself of yourself then your not gunna have the best life that you would ever have. Do what makes you happy and dont care what other people think its your life not theirs. Only you can make your future better and it up to you wether you want your life to be the best you ever wanted it or the worst. No matter what do what you have to do so that you can be happy, your life will be great later on in the future.

• Be Humble

Success comes to those who dedicate everything to their passion in life. To be successful, it is also very important to be humble and never let fame or money travel to your head.

A. R. Rahman

Being humble mean that you arent worrying about what other think you do it for yourelf and you try your best to succeed for the future.

• Be still

Still, it can be more effective to accomplish what you need to accomplish with the minimum effort. Watch Anthony Hopkins. He doesn't appear to be doing anything. He is so still that you can't see him working, but you are drawn into his character through his very stillness.

Morgan Freeman

To me this quote is good describing that if you dont do nothing that it would be better then doing something bad. Id rather not be doing anything that i would know would get me introuble so i would just sit still and i would try to figure out another solution for this problem. Another reason why this is such a good quote is that this shows that many people dont know how to be still when they let life just be how it is.

• Be Prayerful

Reflection:

These 9 ways to to behappy is great because every time you follow these steps you become a great person on thie inside and the ouside and you always will be rewared. Choosing to always be happy will lead you to a better future and a brighter on and alwao people would look at you with respect and would want to emp[loy you or be friends with you. Choosing to be happy is a great commitment and you would always do whats right and you would always get rewarded in the future with something great.

Commitment

            “Don’t sacrifice what you want most for what you want now. Write down what you want most and see it often.”

                                                                Peter  Vidmar

Reflection: 

This is a good quote don't give up on anything push yourself even more and your going get what you wanted and even better.

Obedience Quote

Obedience

"The key to freedom is obedience. The more obedient we are, the more freedom we have."

Boyd K. Packer

An attribute that I think will go really great with this quote is Modest and Responsible because it relates to being obedient, if your responsible and modest it shows that you are a good person and if your obedient you are also choosing the right and that's great because if you always choose to be a good person you will see the results and the rewards in the future. 

This quote relates to my 100+ goals because without obedience most of my goals wouldn't be accomplished because if i want to play for PSG i have to be obedient to my coach because he will show me how to play better and to learn more skills and how to work with teammates and how to stop a player from the other team like improve my defense.

A SMILE

A SMILE

A smile: a pleased, kind, or amused facial expression, typically with the corners of the mouth turned up 

"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around."

Leo Buscaglia 

 Reflection:

This is a great quote that describes happy because not a lot of people get it that just a little smile or something can make someones day or even make them do better, some people all they need is just a smile or a compliment to make them feel like someone cares about them. 

Your own choice

Responsible:

I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do. I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.

Robert A. Heinlein

Reflection:

This is a great quote for responsible because it explains that when you try to do everything by yourself you are responsible for everything you do good or bad the circumstance or gifts that you get for choosing the wrong or right will affect you when you become older and you will notice it.

911

911 Memory

After the terrorism of the 911 attack on the twin towers people tried to help with whatever they cant and some people didn't know how to react but one of the most interesting and really great way to show that the people who didn't make it were recognized in some way. The government created a nice looking memorial site to recognized everyone who died.

Decisions Determine Destiny

"Decisions Determine Destiny"

-Thomas S. Monson

Attribute: Focused, Genuine, knowledgeable

     This quote is small but it represents a lot, it shows that if you do something wrong you will get a different outcome then if you did it right. Your destiny are your choice whether right or wrong. You will either have a great life or a bad one, so choose who you want to trust or hang around with because that represents who you are. This quote really shows the attribute focused, because its your choice whether you want to stay focused and live a better life or just mess it up and be surrounded by people who wouldn't care where you end up.

This quote also relate to my 100+ life planning goals because it represents determination and that what i need to accomplish all my goals and so i can built more confidence in myself and make more goals to accomplish.

Attitude

Attitude

Attitude: a settled way of thinking or feeling about 

someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person's behavior.

Reflection:These quotes are great in my opinion, you choose whether to have a great life or a bad one. If someone doesn't like you just dont talk to them, you know that your better then that to fight for someone that wouldn't appreciate youy so why try with them, live your life with happy moments with the people you care about because you might never know what may happen but have a positive attitude so when problems happy you know how to resolve them in a positive manner.

Personal Development Quote

Personal Development Quote

"A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder." Thomas Carlyle

Attributes:

      -Genuine               -Achiever

      -Compassionate         -Powerful

      -Positive              -Wise

Reflection: I Like this quote because its true, setting goals makes you go farther in life then you have expected and you also get to accomplish those goals and you'll feel great when you do. Planning your goals makes you try harder to achieve them and you will have better self-confidence, so you would have a better life and a better future.

• This relates to my 100 goals because I try hard so that i can accomplish my goals because without then i wont have a path to follow so that i could look at them and would try 100x more then I have.It gives me self-confidence because I would wanna do better in life so that in a couple years I could take care of my parents without worrying about anything.

Assertiveness

Assertiveness

“Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is nothing intelligent about not standing up for yourself. You may not win every battle. However, everyone will at least know what you stood for—YOU.” 

― Shannon L. Alder

Reflection: This quote that Shannon L. Alder is talking about no being smart for keeping quote when you know that your right, but you think you would get in trouble for knowing your rights.I think this is a great quote for assertiveness because it shows that even though some people know their rights they choose weather they want to be assertive and use them in a kind manner or stay quite and take the punishment for following the law.

Goals

MY GOALS

• Start working
• Pass all my classes
• Graduate HS
• Achieve 100 goals
• Join soccer for my 2nd year
• Buy my mom a gift 
• Go to jiu jitsu classes
• Dunk 
• Meet Ronaldinho 
• Meet Pele
• Buy my first car
• Buy a home 
• Find a job that I love
• Go to USC
• Play Basketball or soccer for USC
• Graduate college
• Get more fit
• Lose 15 pounds
• Go to college
• Meet Messi
• Build a tree house
• Get married
• Own a company
• Win the tournament at GOALS
• Make it to the state finals for soccer
• Visit France
• Visit Hawaii
• Visit new places in mexico
• Get my drivers license
• Visit Malibu beach
• Live a happy life
• Maintain myself
• Help my parents pay the bills
• Buy my parents a home
• Buy my parents their dream car
• Be competitive
• Take my drivers test
• Buy my first car
• Order car parts from japan
• Earn a Masters degree
• Get my gpa up to 3.5 or higher
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Accountability

Personal Development Attribute

Accountability

        Accountability is the fact or condition of being accountable, like responsibility. Being accountable to someone means that they trust you and they feel that you can be trusted because you have showed them that your a responsible person. Here is a quote i found that is really great to express a figurative speech of accountable.

"When we are really honest with ourselves we must admit our lives are all that really belong to us. So it is how we use our lives that determines the kind of men we are." 

Ceasar Chavez 

This quote shows that being ourselves and loving yourself give us self confidence and it shows me that you can be a different person by what  you are determined to do if you become honest with yourself that you trust yourself and not be scared of being wrong to other people just to be happy about who you are and not to care what others think of you and you.