The Seven Habit

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Habit 1:Being Proactive

"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."

Habit 2:Begin With The End In Mind

"Control your own destiny or someone else will."(Jack Welch) 

Habit 3:Put First Things First

"Organize and excecute around priorities."
Reflection: Organize and plan what you are going to do because if you put your priorities first the less important stuff can wait and it would be much easier and less stressful. Try your best at being prepared for what might come next because if you are organize, your life would be so much easier.

Habit 4:Think Win-Win

"Think win-win or no deal."
Reflection: Never give up on what you are willing to strive for because at the end of the day you will become a better person and a over achiever. You will be proud that you pushed yourself harder and harder just to make it, but at the end everything pays off and you will be awarded for your success and youll feel great.

Habit 5:Seek First to Understand, Then to be         Understood

"Diagnose before you prescribe."
Reflection: Try to understand the person because it makes you look interested when you know what he asked you or what information is important to you. Your communication skills would be better and you will have an easier time understanding people. 

Habit 6:Synergize
"The whole is greater than the sum of its part (1+1=3)"

Reflection: This is a great quote because if you work together you will have a better output and you will work faster because ou have help and you wont struggle or worry as much as you did working alone.

Habit 7:Sharpen the Saw
Four dimensions of self-renewal:
Physical,Mental,Spiritual,Social/Emotional

Reflection: This shows that if you use the 4
Dimensions of self renewal that you would be a better person then you thought you would be and you will learn more and memories stuff easily and doing all the 4 Dimensions will improve your personality and make you strike for your success. It also makes you think about helpin others and and care about others also and thats a great habbit.

Reflection:"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" is a great way to become open minded and become a better person and alway focuse on yourself and you will be great. You will have alot of friends and you would also become the best version of yourself if you set your mind on fucusing about the 7 habits. 

Three Fundamental Techniques

in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, dont kick over the beehive."

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation

                 "The big secret in dealing with people"

1) Health and the preservation of life

2) Food

3) Sleep

4) Money and the things money will buy

5) Life in the hereafter

6) Sexual gratification

7) The well being of our children

8) A feeling of importance

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way."


Final Reflection:
The three fundamental techniques are a great way to make your life better and improve more of a better person you will be and the best way that you can get new friends and that will lead you to succeed in the future and improve you life alo. This is a positive way to influence your life to succeec more then you wouldve thought of. This ways would show you how to live the best and the happiest life that anything can offer you, following these three fundamentals are the key to success.

School Break days

School Break days

What I did for my break was play video games, party, go shopping, get food, cook, go to the movies, and go visit my family. I went to Menifee, Anaheim, and Downey. the movie that I watched was The Revenant, it was a great movie I liked the movie alot. I went to go play soccer with some friends at the park then we went to go eat. I chose to do my homework that the teachers left me instead of going out to a party.  

Final

Class/ Self Evaluation

A) What I liked about this class its that is was peaceful and I could get all my work done in good timing and that the TA's assisted you if you needed help and it teached me more stuff then I was expected to learn. I learned alot of fascinating stuff like how to create a website using html.
B) Suggestions about improving this class is nothing because this class is great I really liked it alot and I could only improve myself for trying harder and for over acvhieving more.
3) I didnt really do my best because i could have done way more stuff then I did I just became a little lazy but i still tried and when I take this class again next semester I am going to try to over achieve so that I can feel better about myself.
4) Yes im commited to be a CTR person because if you really focuse on being the best person that you can and trying your hardest when you choose the right decisions it would lead you to a happier and a better life then you would normally expected.

How to win friends

Six Ways to Make People Like you. If you want people to like you........

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested on other people

"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." 

"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

In my opinion i wouldnt know if this would be true about winning friends but i belive that it might have a chance to influence friends or might give you an upper chance to become good friends. These quotes i wrote on top might be true I don't know about that but like I believe that no matter what you will have friends. You wont need too much friends but if you want tho this book will be for you.

Rule 2: Smile
1)" Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)" You don't feel like smiling? Thyen force yourself to smile."
3)"It createshappiness in the home, fostors good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends." 

Alot of reason can make you smile dont give up or dont stop having hop if you really want something try your best and smile while your trying because if gives you a better sense of great attitude that you have more confidence on yourself and you will have a great amount of chance to get that thing or someone youve always dreamed of having or being 

 Rule 3: Remember Names
1)"A mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2)"If you dont remember names, you ar headed for trouble."
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How to Remember Names:
To remember a persons name you should, remember the person's face. Try to find an unique feature, whether ears, hairline, forehead, eyebrows, eyes, nose, mouth, chin, complexion, etc.

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk                about themselves.

1. Stay Focused, Eye contact
2. Really listen
3. Allow for periods of silence, Wait until the other person finishes speaking
4. Repeat peoples words or paraphrase it back to them
5. Understand the emotions behind the word

"If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."


Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and                    do it sincerely.
"To desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

Reflection:
My thought of the "Six Ways to Make People Like You" is that the six ways are really great, alot of people like friendships when they are heard and when your there for them throught thick and thin and that you hear them out instead of complaining about what they did wron but think of what they did right and help them improve what they did wrong. Many people give bad examples of their type of friendship; they dont hear them out, they interupt, choose other peoples sides instead of yours, and they are more interesting into them selves and dont care about what happens to you until you gain fame or money.

Glenn Cunningham

Glenn Cunningham

Glenn Cunningham had a rought childhood, he suffered but never gave up he dreamed big and he achieved all the things he wanted to do, nothing stopped him even though sometimes when he was about to give up he still though hard about it and he told himself "i'll walk, i'll walk." Even though he didnt achieve his goal for making the mile in 4 minutes he still tried harder and harder. 

The Six Attitudes of High Achievers

"The Six Attitudes of High Achievers"

1) Make no small plans

"Make no little plans; they have no magic to stir men`s blood and probably themselves will not be realized. Make big plans; aim high in hope and work, remembering that a noble, logical diagram once recorded will never die, but long after we are gone will be a living thing, asserting itself with ever- growing insistency. Remember that our sons and grandsons are going to do things that would stagger us. Let your watchword be order and your beacon beauty." 
Daniel Burnham

2) Do what they fear 
Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay. Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously. Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.
Thich Nhat Hanh

3) Are willing to prepare
I'm saying to be a hero is means you step across the line and are willing to make a sacrifice, so heroes always are making a sacrifice. Heroes always take a risk. Heroes always deviant. Heroes always doing something that most people don't and we want to change - I want to democratise heroism to say any of us can be a hero.
Philip Zimbardo

4) Are willing to risk failure
Success is about dedication. You may not be where you want to be or do what you want to do when you're on the journey. But you've got to be willing to have vision and foresight that leads you to an incredible end.
Usher

5) Are teachable
There are humans or animals that can not be ttrianed or tought how to behave or work. Some humans or animals are taught at an early age how to do stuff and how to behave so that in the future they could develope more and become better like a CTR person.


6) Have Heart
Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it.
Steve Jobs

Reflection:

High achievers make no small thought and thes 6 Attitudes of High Achievers is great so guide you through your future to become a better person overall and become genuine.These 6 steps helped me in my life alot and showed me another point of view.each of the 6 Attitudes will lead you to new and better life obstacles and show you that you can surpass what you thought you couldn't do.